Wednesday, October 15, 2008

5 If You Start a Family, There's No Going Back


There's no going back once you start a family. It's not like a roller coaster ride where you can stand in line to get on, then change your mind and hop off. The biscuit is already cooking in the oven. Even if you didn't plan on starting a family yet, you got ten months to prepare yourself for one. 
Now-a-days I look to my left and I see a classmate from high school expecting. Then when I turn to my right my little
 cousin is pregnant. They have no jobs. No life. They live with their parents. The baby's daddy? Who knows? Those girls may say getting pregnant is their decision, but who ends up supporting the baby? Parents who have grown old and thought they did their job in life already and taken care of their share of kids. Them young one's starting a family are selfish. A mother's worse fear for their daughter is getting sexually assaulted/harassed. Getting pregnant unexpectedly at a young immature age is the runner up. Getting pregnant and being sexually active are two totally different decisions and situations. Get them straight. Reminder to the 80 young and prego girls who I passed on the street just today, you're bringing a living being to the world, it's way bigger than high school drama.

1 comment:

emely said...

oish maka..tell dem..shyt sumwun fina b a great mother...you feel like mynes & sifa's mommy!lmao dayum i love all ur blog postings..it's all treal talk..spaek on sistuh!hahah